BK Sister Shivani is a renowned life coach and Raj Yoga guru who often talks about meaningful ideas and a change in perspective about how we look at things.We’ve all been there in situations when someone makes a mistake, and in the name of discipline or “for their own good,” we raise our voice, react sharply, or try to correct them with frustration. It feels justified in the moment. But deep down, we know something changes inside us when we do that. We lose our calm. Our energy becomes heavy. And instead of helping the other person grow, we might just end up pushing them away.This is exactly what BK Shivani talks about, reminding us that true transformation doesn’t come from reaction; it comes from keeping oneself calm and stable, with love, and with the right inner vibrations.
Quote of the day
When we shout at people for a mistake, react strongly to their incorrect sanskar… in the name of discipline or for their benefit, our reactive behavior shifts us to the wrong side. One wrong has no right to correct another wrong. Wrong has no power to transform the other wrong. Remain stable and respond the right way. Right vibrations influence them to shift to the right.
BK Sister Shivani
What does the quote mean?
BK Shivani’s message is simple but holds a profound truth: reacting with anger, shouting, or harshness does not fix mistakes; instead, it just multiplies them. When someone makes an error, and we respond with frustration, we’re not bringing light to their mistake; we’re adding more darkness.In spiritual terms, sanskar means the impressions or habits formed by a person’s repeated thoughts and actions. Everyone carries different sanskars based on their upbringing, experiences, and inner conditioning. When we react strongly to someone’s incorrect habit or sanskar, we’re not helping them change, as it often makes them defensive, resentful, or more stuck; not just that, it also disturbs our inner peace.BK Shivani explains that making someone disciplined does not come from punishment or control. True discipline is about empowerment and transformation, which happens through a balance of love and respect. When we shout or criticise, we may stop that behaviour temporarily, but we don’t create lasting change. Instead, we damage the relationship and lower our own inner state.
The power of right vibrations
So what’s the alternative?BK Shivani advises us to remain calm and respond the right way. This is not a tough task; it can just come by pausing before reacting, checking our own inner state, and choosing words and actions that come from calmness, not frustration.When we stay quiet and calm and react the right way, our energy naturally influences others. People don’t just hear our words; they feel our energy. And it’s this energy that creates real transformation.
